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Top 3 reasons why people to deny when a relationship is over.


Lack of Self-Love:  This is the first reason for denial of a relationship's unhealthy existence and failing status.  It's also the reason these drama filled relationships begin.   Usually, the initial attraction is to someone who's emotionally incapable of giving attentive, unconditional love.  Of course, not being aware of this fact at initial attraction and the consequences of falling for this person, it's an easy choice.  It feels right.  

It feels right for the many who lack self-love because they've been void of this type of love in their years as a child.  They know now,  as adults, they deserve it but had parents, or none at all, who were either, too busy or to self-absorbed in their own lives to give this unconditional and attentive love. 

Therefore, this is why it feels right  It's what has been normal when it comes to the feelings of love.   It's unacceptable as you can imagine, however, we learn what we live and then we live what we've learned.   It's inbred from birth to adulthood. 

For those of us who were void of the love we deserved in our childhood years it's so hard to accept REAL love.   It doesn't feel right.  "There's no chemistry."  Sound familiar?  We expect it right after we've fallen for the person who can't give it?   Lack of self-love is when acceptance of a person's behavior not worthy of you is a constant in your life.  Allowing excuses to be accepted time and time again for poor treatment undeserving to you because it's easier a thought than to lose the person you TRULY love. To truly love yourself is to accept only what you deserve.


Lack of self-confidence:  This is the second reason people accept and deny a bad relationship.  For the person who lacks self-confidence this is double trouble.   In their upbringing they've most likely been made to feel  as though they were not good enough.  Much needed praise and appreciation for the daily efforts wasn't given.  In their place, harsh and demeaning comments were easily tossed out when little mistakes or imperfections were noticed.  Women who lack self-confidence, as well lack self-love, undoubtedly, are  being treated by their partner as though they're not good enough.   Enduring daily criticism and even verbal abuse.   Again we are drawn to what we are used to.    For this person it's even harder to walk away.  They feel as though no one else will want them.  Their lack of self-confidence.  Imagine just having found someone to give their love to, has been all they've dreamed and  to have finally found them how can they possibly accept losing this love they are used to.   To have self-confidence is to believe and prove to oneself daily of their worth.   

 

Loneliness:  The third reason the realities of the relationship's inability to last don't seem to matter.  Have you ever decided to stay with someone because the thought of ever finding someone again seemed impossible?  What about being broken up for one of the countless times with the same person and suddenly finding  yourself feeling  alone?   You've spent all your time with this person and now you have no one else to enjoy fulfilling your time.  This is when the mind  begins to play tricks on you.  It's only natural to reflect on the good times you once shared.  It, being only natural and common to miss the good times, this is when the relationship's ugliness and true fate is amiss.   Because the thought of being alone is too much to bare it's easy to forget and only remember and miss the good times.  The vision to your soul and your true desires and how to get them is impaired with  unhealthy emotions that lead to behavior counter-intuitive to your healing and heart's desires.

Which one/s of these three, being honest with yourself, can you relate to?

Recognition is very important to understanding yourself, healing the hurt, and creating the future you desire.

 

 

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       Snap to it Girlfriend, CHOOSE YOU!

    Whether this is your first broken heart, your fifth broken heart or your last broken heart, no doubt about it, you will survive.

The question is, how?  How will you choose to spend your days and nights during this most difficult, most painful time?  Will you allow the breakup to affect the quality of your life and rob you of precious time that could and should be spent on positive, life improving actions?  Will you allow it to break you? 

          You're broken up......Don't be broken down!

       Beware!........It won't be easy.

The heart wants what the heart wants. 

          

          Girlfriend Please! Snap out of it! He's not worth it!, is an easy and inspiring read to help get out of or get over a bad relationship and move on to a happier  life, the life you've always imagined.  It boldly reveals short, true stories of the drama too many women go through unnecessarily in the name of love.  Unfortunately, these stories are familiar to many women.  Women, who give their hearts to men who really don't deserve them, and then, they believe these men can and should behave differently in the name of their love.  The results, women trying to change men.   All the while they accept and make excuses for inexcusable behavior, telling themselves and their friends things like, "No man is perfect.", "You can't have everything in a man." or "At least he doesn't hit me". 

                            Sound familiar?

         If it isn't you, it's a friend who shares stories of being taken advantage of and is heartbroken time and time again.  Frustrating right?  When will enough be enough?  The question is, why is it tolerated over and over again?

          Girlfriend Please! Snap out of it! He's not worth it!,  is it for you? Your friend? or both?  Either way it's powerfully effective in a non-psychoanalytical fashion.   It's meant to be used daily as a reminder and a tool to create and keep peace and happiness in your heart.

          The Snap Band is cute.   It has a heart with a peace sign inside of it.  This visual, along with a slight "Snap" of the wrist with it, is a daily reminder to keep "Peace in the Heart".   AND can even  help to prevent the much regretted acts of drunk texting or calling and Facebook and Myspace stalking, the acts that are easily resorted to when the emotions and feelings of being lonely spin out of control and all focus of what's truly best for the promise of real true love's arrival is lost.

 

           Girlfriend Please! Snap out of it! He's not worth it!, the book, the "Snap band" and snapoutofitgirlfriend.com the website, will uplift you and can help you to change your life and break the cycle if you embrace its message and do little things daily for you and are ready to begin living your happily ever after.   

                It's not him, girlfriend, it's YOU.  

                 Love is a choice,  Choose you! 

        


                          What's your passion?

           Who or what do you aspire to have or be? I know, I know, in love right? Well, not until you love yourself will you become attracted to "nice guys" and not the "bad boy" and finally find what you desire.  Get out of your own way.  It won't be simple.  Start with the book and the "snap band" that comes with it.  Come here daily and nurture your soul through the "DailySeeds" link.  Take the love and energy you usually give to him and give it to yourself or  someone else in need.  The more you accomplish the more beautiful you will feel and become to not only yourself but others too.  I promise!  Even the simplest of things.  Soon you will feel that you are of great value,  know your time is too precious and can only be spent being happy and content.   Start being passionate about the beautiful person you desire to be inside and out.

          Like my book, Girlfriend Please! Snap out of it! He's not worth it!, I plan to keep this website simple yet effective.  Women helping women through the power of written words.  Take advantage daily, of Snapoutofitgirlfriend.com, it's aimed at providing encouragement, support and friendship, through the "Today I feel blog" and "How'd it go today girlfriend blog".

Current knowledge and advice in career planning, health concerns, fitness trends, best and latest beauty tools and plenty of activities to keep you busy and focused on YOU are located in the "DailySeeds" link.

                                How you can help......

         I welcome ideas, advice, suggestions and comments to improve this site for us. 

Do you know someone who is inspirational because they've changed their life from being the victim to the victor?  Send an email to tina@snapoutofitgirlfriend.com  so I can contact them, we need their help.   I'll be eagerly waiting to hear of them.  With my passion and your help, wouldn't it be great if we can stop some of the drama and even better, become awesome women who achieve great things.      

 
 
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